My daughter was able to take the leotard off for using the washroom when she was about 4, but not all kids will be able to at that age. You could try to buy leggings that are a size or two too small. They may not fit lengthwise, but you could pretend they are meant to be capris. With shirts, it could be the tag that is bothering her (some also have a tag on the side as well as the back of the neck) or the material or the fit. When I would find a shirt my daughter could wear, I would buy several of the same shirt so that we would have backups. I hope that helps a bit.

We were doing fine with leggings, but now she stretches out the waist band and then complains that they’re stretched out.

She is suddenly complaining about most shirts also … she hasn’t been able to articulate what the problem is.

Did you ever get help for this? Dealing with it now. Socks are a nightmare for us. Leggings are even becoming a problem even though it’s all she has worn for years now.

Bonnie, that is also a sensory issue. In that case, the child is sensory avoidant in this area rather than sensory seeking. It presents a challenge as well. Allowing your child to be part of the process of choosing their clothes helps. If you live in a warmer climate, then socks may not be necessary, but in winter in colder climates, that presents a problem! Choosing clothing made of lighter materials can help as well as choosing items that flow and move easily. Using a poncho or wrap in place of a coat may be easier for your child. Ask them a lot of questions about what feels comfortable to them and when you find something that works, try to find more items like it.

That sounds really frustrating Jane. I hope you are able to get the school on board with what would work best for your son.

My son has worn tight fitting “underarmor” type shirts as a layer under regular shirts.