Comments on: Why I Marched My 12 Year Old Into the Police Station

By: Magda

Magda — Fri, 12 Feb 2016 17:00:19 +0000

I totally support you in your decision! I bet he will remember this for a long time and he should! Wearing seat belts is not a battle you can compromise on. I have a 9 year old boy and I already know what you’re talking about. At this age, I can still reason with him, but I imagine this is going to be harder and harder in the future!

By: Sabine

Sabine — Fri, 12 Feb 2016 15:54:04 +0000

You could be my sister, I only tell my children what will happen next when I’m going to do it if I have to, Sometimes it hurt me more than them, But my kids know that I’ve a very unique and creative style of parenting and once I announced a consequence it will going to happen. It is up to them if they want to push it. I can see myself in a policestation for the same reason. I also had my child get out of the car and walk. (of course it was safe for him, but not as comfortable). Some people call me coldhearted or not caring, but my children learned often only the hard way. You did your job well.

By: diane streicher

diane streicher — Wed, 20 Jan 2016 02:29:14 +0000

Raising my four now-adult daughters through the stand-offs of their teen years, I found that taking an extreme stand – such as you did – had an infinitely valuable payoff. Not only was the point of the particular situation made to a T, but in the following weeks, months and years, when I found myself in another stand -off, I could say, “If you continue to do x, then I will be forced to do y” and the daughter in question knew very well that i would indeed follow through.

Powerful stuff. You did good.

By: Alison

Alison — Thu, 27 Aug 2015 03:56:56 +0000

It’s so important for us as parents to stand our ground when it comes to our children’s safety. I think you did the right thing and are brave to share! Thanks for linking up at the Thoughtful Spot Blog Hop!

By: Sherry

Sherry — Sun, 23 Aug 2015 01:22:06 +0000

It’s not easy raising preteens. I agree with your approach. At least he knows you mean what you say. That’s saying a lot, too. Thanks for sharing with us at Merry Monday:-)

By: Stacey Crowder

Stacey Crowder — Sat, 22 Aug 2015 23:18:06 +0000

I agree with what you have done completely. I think more people should follow your example. Thanks for sharing and for linking up with #Alittlebitofeverything! Have a great weekend!

By: Michelle

Michelle — Fri, 21 Aug 2015 21:04:56 +0000

Amen to you mama! Tough love is sometimes the only way. I admire your courage and yes, by all means you should share this, so other parents can see that they NEED to be the parent not their child’s friend. Featuring this post on our Tuesday Talk next week. Come on over and see other topics of real life!!

By: Breann from Stop the Frown

Breann from Stop the Frown — Fri, 21 Aug 2015 16:57:15 +0000

Absolutely brilliant. I applaud you for your follow-through, for knowing the importance of this moment as a life-lesson. Thank you for sharing! #getyourshineon

By: Donella Crigger

Donella Crigger — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 18:53:13 +0000

Way to go, mama! My husband is a law enforcement officer, and he’s always happy to talk to kids or parents about safety concerns, etc. and never feels that it’s a waste of valuable time, just so you know that. 🙂

By: Lyli @3dlessons4life.com

Lyli @3dlessons4life.com — Thu, 20 Aug 2015 18:53:12 +0000

Way to go, mom! (and welcome to Thought-Provoking Thursday!) 🙂