I don’t have many answers when it comes to the chaos other than to learn to see the blessings in it. I have long ago discovered that chaos is actually an indiction of blessing. If you did not have others in your life, you probably would not be experiencing chaos.
That laundry pile? A sign that you have the provision of clothes and the blessing of family in your life.
Those dishes piled in the sink? A sign that you have the provision of food and the blessing of the ability to prepare it.
Those screaming, disheveled children? The greatest blessing of all!
The most help I can give you when facing the chaos in your life is to help you find the joy in it, to appreciate the brevity of these moments and relish in them…these years go by so quickly!
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