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Sharla Kostelyk

3 Busy Bags with Popsicle Sticks

By Sharla Kostelyk

Busy bags are a great tool for moms to use to occupy younger kids while they are doing an activity or schoolwork with older kids. They also work well for waiting rooms and road trips.

There are all sorts that you can make but if you’ve read our other busy bag ideas, you may have noticed that I like to keep my ideas simple and cost effective. The only reason I am able to have two boxes filled with busy bags for Dancing Queen to play with is that I was able to make them quickly and easily.

3 easy to make Busy Bags with Popsicle SticksThese popsicle stick activity bags can be made in a matter of minutes and require very little in the sense of supplies. You may very well already have everything you need to create these for your little one. One of these activities has small parts so wouldn’t be appropriate for very young children and like all activities, children should be somewhat supervised. (in other words, I am not liable if you make these and you or your toddler swallow a magnet!)

Magnetic Shape Sticks

Materials needed:

  • popsicle sticks (I used bright coloured ones but plain would work)
  • adhesive magnet stip, cut into smaller pieces
  • mini cookie sheet or the lid from a tin container
  • large resealable bag
  • optional: glue to further secure the magnets

Magnetic Shape Sticks Busy BagTo prepare this busy bag, attach magnet pieces to each end of the popsicle sticks. I used the adhesive kind of magnet strip but I still needed to glue them in place as the adhesive didn’t hold well enough. Place the now magnetic sticks in a large resealable bag with a mini baking tray or the lid from a tin container. The sticks can then be used to create shapes and patterns.

Magnetic Shape SticksYour child can also use the sticks to play on the fridge or any other magnetic surface such as a white board or outside door.

Popsicle Stick Puzzles

Materials needed:

  • photos, emotion cards or pictures from magazines
  • glue
  • exacto knife or scissors
  • wide popsicle sticks
  • resealable bag

Popsicle Stick PuzzlesKids love these because they can be personalized. They get especially excited when they include pictures of people they love or treasured family memories. On most of ours, I used pictures from past family vacations. This way the kids can relive those memories while they put together their puzzles. They can also put the puzzles in chronological order.

Another great thing you can do when creating these is to make them with emotion cards or large faces clipped from magazine. These can become a great tool for kids with autism or kids who need extra help in learning to identify emotions.

To make these busy bags, lay wide popsicle sticks side by side and glue a photo, emotion card or picture from a magazine on top. Allow the glue to dry. Using an exacto blade or scissors, cut the popsicle sticks apart. Put them into a resealable bag and kids can piece the puzzles together.

Foam Sticker Puppets

Materials needed:

  • popsicle sticks
  • foam stickers
  • resealable bag
  • optional: permanent markers

Foam Sticker Puppets Busy BagThe great thing about this busy bag is that it lends itself to all kinds of creativity. All you have to do to prepare this activity bag is to place popsicle sticks and foam stickers in a resealable bag. This is a great way to use up all the extras from other foam sticker activities or you can choose to use ones of a particular theme.

Your child can then make puppets using the foam stickers and do all kinds of creative play using their puppets. For older kids, you can also include some fine-tip permanent markers in the bag for them to add details to their puppets.

Some of our other busy bags:

7 Busy Bags for Learning Colours

7 Busy Bags Made Using Paint Chips

5 Busy Bags with Pipe Cleaners

If you are looking for more busy bag ideas, you may want to follow my Activity Bags board on Pinterest or if you are just looking for some great ideas for kids, you may want to follow my most popular Pinterest board, For Kids.

Follow Sharla Kostelyk’s board For Kids on Pinterest.

Filed Under: Busy Bags, Crafts and Activities

Books for Kids About Liking Who They Are

Books for Kids About Liking Who They Are. These are great self-esteem boosters.

By Sharla Kostelyk

Self-esteem is a word that gets thrown around fairly liberally, but it is important for kids to learn to embrace their uniqueness and to like themselves for who they are. They get so many messages from the media about having to aspire to some sort of unattainable perfection that it is important that we counter that with our own message about them being good enough just the way they are.

Books for Kids About Liking Who They Are. These are great self-esteem boosters.

These messages can be even more important for kids who may feel different because of a special need or a visible difference such as a hearing aid, scarring or being significantly larger or smaller than same-age peers.

Books for Kids About Liking Who They Are

I often use books in helping me reinforce the values I am trying to teach my kids. Here are some books that help teach kids about being okay just being themselves:

A Bad Case of StripesA Bad Case of StripesSpaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun: Having the Courage To Be Who You AreSpaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun: Having the Courage To Be Who You AreI Like Myself!I Like Myself!Marvelous Me: Inside and OutMarvelous Me: Inside and OutYou Are SpecialYou Are SpecialI Love My Hair!I Love My Hair!The DotThe DotThe Skin You Live InThe Skin You Live InWe're Different, We're the SameWe’re Different, We’re the SameI'm Gonna Like MeI’m Gonna Like MeStand Tall, Molly Lou MelonStand Tall, Molly Lou MelonIt's Okay To Be DifferentIt’s Okay To Be DifferentBe Who You AreBe Who You AreWhat I Like About Me!What I Like About Me!

A Bad Case of Stripes – This is one of our all-time favourite read-alouds! We’ve even done some really fun activities to go along with the book and help cement the concept of being who you are.

A Bad Case of Stripes ActivitiesSpaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun – This is a neat book because it lends itself to discussions on bullying, family traditions and embracing your uniqueness. Essentially, it’s a book about having the courage to be who you are, presented in a way that kids can easily understand and relate to.

I Like Myself – This is another family favourite. What parent doesn’t want their child to be able to say they like themselves? When I told the kids that I wanted to take a picture of them with their favourite book, this is the one that Dancing Queen chose.

You are Special – The underlying message in this book is that God cherishes each of us, exactly as we are, regardless of how the world perceives us or of how others treat us. It’s a long book for a read-aloud so you may want to break it into parts. Another book by the same author (Max Lucado) called If Only I Had a Green Nose reminds kids that they are created as unique for a reason.

I Love My Hair – This book obviously doesn’t apply to all kids, but if you have a daughter of African descent who struggles with liking her hair, this book is awesome! It has helped Dancing Queen to feel like her hair is another part of herself to be celebrated, not hated.

The Dot – “Just make a mark and see where it takes you.” This book helps kids discover their talents and encourages them to follow their own path.

The Skin You Live In – This is a great book about diversity and self-esteem. It is simple enough for even young children.

The rest of the books in the list above are not ones we have read yet, but they seem to be ones that teach the same lesson. Are there any that you would add to this list?

Filed Under: Homeschooling, Parenting in the Chaos

Easy Homemade Whipped Shea Butter

Easy Homemade Whipped Shea Butter

By Sharla Kostelyk

As the mom of three kids of African descent, I have had to learn a lot about hair and skin care. If they don’t use cream or oil on their skin, it gets incredibly dry and turns a greyish colour. It also gets itchy and uncomfortable for them, so I make sure that I always have cream for them to use. Most of the creams we’ve tried have been full of fillers and stuff that I don’t want on my kids’ skin. They are also quite costly so I have taken to making my own.

Easy Homemade Whipped Shea ButterWhen I first started looking at recipes to make my own shea butter cream, I was scared off by how complicated it sounded. Most of the recipes for whipped shea butter included steps for heating/melting and then cooling, while whipping in between. They called for the use of candy thermometers and I knew that there was no way I could add something time consuming and complicated into my already too busy schedule.

I have come up with a method that couldn’t be more simple and it works just as well as the complicated ones. I use two main recipes, one that uses coconut oil and the other without.

Whipped Shea Butter Recipe

Supplies needed:

  • 4 oz. unrefined shea butter (use 100% natural)
  • 2 Tbsp. extra virgin olive oil
  • 6-10 drops vitamin E oil
  • 10 or more drops of essential oils in the scent of your choice (lavender is nice)

Directions:

  1. Mash the raw shea butter with a fork.
  2. Add the olive oil and mash together.
  3. Add the drops of vitamin E and essential oils.
  4. Beat with an electric mixer on high for 5 full minutes.
  5. Store in a glass container with a lid.

Whipped Shea Butter with Coconut Oil Recipe

Supplies needed:

  • 4 oz. unrefined shea butter (use 100% natural)
  • 2 Tbsp. coconut oil
  • 6-10 drops vitamin E oil

Directions:

  1. Mash the raw shea butter with a fork.
  2. Add the coconut oil and mash together.
  3. Add the vitamin E drops.
  4. Beat with an electric mixer for 5 minutes on high.
  5. Store in a glass container with a lid.

For the coconut oil recipe, I don’t bother with a scent because between the coconut oil and shea butter, it is already scented. My kids like both recipes, but one of them prefers the scent of the one without coconut oil.

In the pictures below, you can see how the consistency of the shea butter changes as it is mashed and then whipped.

step by step easy whipped shea butterI feel much better about my kids using a product that is all natural, where I know what went into it. Making my own shea butter products also saves me money.

Filed Under: Home

Quiet Time Activities

By Sharla Kostelyk

This past week has been a really busy one in our household. We went camping. I had not been camping in 14 years and I miscalculated how much to bring. Someone said what I did was called kitchen sink camping because I brought everything but! I actually had a cold and headaches the whole time and I don’t like being outside or dirt or bugs and have somewhat of an obsession about clean sterile dishes, so it wasn’t my favourite, but the kids had all kinds of FUN!

In honour of me needing to occupy my kids this week with nice quiet activities while I recover from the adventure that is called camping, I’ve compiled a list of some of my favourite quiet time activities.

Quiet Time Activities for Preschoolers

Shark Sensory Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter (pictured)

Button Snake from Happy Hooligans (pictured)

No Sew Quiet Book Patterns from And Next Comes L (pictured)

Quiet time activities for little ones as well as for older kids

Simple String Busy Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter (pictured)

Vehicle Busy Bag from Something 2 Offer

Summer Clothes Dress Up Busy Bag from Teaching Mama (pictured)

Busy Bags with Paint Chips from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Gumball Counting Busy Bag from Happy Brown House (pictured)

Free Printable Dinosaur Activities for Kids from The Natural Homeschool

Travel Memory Game from Kids Activities Blog

Ocean Sensory Bottle from here on The Chaos and The Clutter (pictured)

Pipe Cleaner People with Name Beads from An Idea on Tuesday

Simple Sewing Busy Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Simple Scooping Busy Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Alphabet Road Tracing Book from Playdough to Plato (pictured)

Lavender Scented Calming Playdough from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Number Coloring Pages & 3 Part Cards in 4 Languages {Printable} from The Natural Homeschool

Quiet Time Boxes from Teaching Mama

Build a Snowman Busy Bag from Growing Hands on Kids

Simple Beading Busy Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Q-Tip Snowflake Busy Bag from Playdough to Plato

Playdough Mats from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Fun Pirate Games for Kids {Printable} from The Natural Homeschool

No Sew Quiet Book for Toddlers from Powerful Mothering

Busy Bags with Popsicle Sticks from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Busy Bags with Pipe Cleaners from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

Busy Bags for Learning Colours from here on The Chaos and The Clutter

quiet-time-activities-for-older-kids

Quiet Time Activities for Older Kids

Clock Puzzles Busy Bag from Happy Brown House

On-the-Go Tic Tac Toe Game Busy Bag from Glued to my Crafts (pictured)

Sight Words Busy Bag from here on The Chaos and The Clutter (pictured)

Space Adventures, Games & Activities for Kids {Printable Sets} from The Natural Homeschool

Solar System I-Spy Busy Bag from Research Parent (pictured)

Block Shadows Busy Bag from Happy Brown House

Spider Math Game from Glued to my Crafts

Filed Under: Crafts and Activities

5 Busy Bags with Pipe Cleaners

By Sharla Kostelyk

We love busy bags and have been using them for a few years now. I find that they are especially helpful in keeping my youngest occupied and having fun while I work with the older kids on homeschooling or other projects. They are also great for road trips or waiting rooms.

5 Busy Bags with Pipe Cleaners

These 5 busy bags can all be made with pipe cleaners and most of the other items required are things you likely already have around the house. These are very inexpensive to make and all are very simple.

Pipe Cleaner Bead String

Materials needed:

  • beads (shaped ones are cute to add but plain beads work too)
  • pipe cleaners
  • large resealable bag

Pipe Cleaner Bead String Busy BagThis couldn’t be simpler to make. Place some pipe cleaners and beads into a resealable bag and this busy bag is ready to go! Kids can enjoy making bracelets or doll necklaces or bookmarks while they practise their fine motor skills.

Potato Chip Can Pipe Cleaner Drop

Materials needed:

  • empty potato chip can (such as Pringles)
  • hole punch
  • coloured reinforcements
  • pipe cleaners in matching colours to the reinforcements
  • optional: scrapbook paper

Pipe Cleaner DropPunch holes in the lid of an empty potato chip can (I used a Pringles can). Add a coloured reinforcement sticker to each hole so that the colour surrounds the hole. Add pipe cleaners that are the same colours as the reinforcements into the can. I folded the ends of the pipe cleaners down so that they wouldn’t be sharp but for some kids this isn’t necessary. I also glued a piece of scrapbook paper around the Pringles can just to make it look nicer but this is optional.

Your child can then thread the pipe cleaners down the holes that match the colour. This is a great activity for fine motor as well as for learning colours.

Pringles Can Pipe Cleaner Drop

Magnet Busy Bag

Materials needed:

  • empty plastic bottle
  • pipe cleaners, cut into smaller pieces
  • magnetic wand

Magnet Busy BagTo create this fun activity, cut pipe cleaners into pieces and put them into an empty plastic bottle. Your child can then use the magnet wand on the outside of the bottle to move the pipe cleaners around and explore how the metal pieces in the pipe cleaners react to the magnet.

Pipe Cleaner Shapes

Materials needed:

  • pipe cleaners
  • paper
  • pen or marker
  • resealable plastic bag

Pipe Cleaner ShapesBusy bags don’t have to be complicated. You could create or use some fancy shape cards for this or you can do what I did and just draw simple shapes on paper. Your child can then try to replicate these shapes using one pipe cleaner or by combining several pipe cleaners. Store the pipe cleaners and shape papers in a resealable bag.

Pool Noodle Stack

Materials needed:

  • pool noodle, cut into pieces
  • permanent marker
  • pipe cleaners
  • resealable plastic bag

Pool Noodle Stack Busy BagTo create this busy bag, cut up a pool noodle and number the pieces with a permanent marker. Put them into a resealable bag with some pipe cleaners. Kids can either stack the pieces and work on their counting and number recognition or they can thread the pool noodles onto the pipe cleaners.

Just to give you an idea of how much of a pool noodle making this busy bag will use, with one pool noodle, I made this busy bag for Dancing Queen, made this busy bag for each of the ladies that came to my sensory bin swap, and made a Seaside Sensory Bin. So one pool noodle yielded five busy bags and a sensory bin!

Some of our other busy bags:

7 Busy Bags for Learning Colours

7 Busy Bags Made Using Paint Chips

If you are looking for more busy bag ideas, you may want to follow my Activity Bags board on Pinterest or if you are just looking for some great ideas for kids, you may want to follow my most popular Pinterest board, For Kids.

Follow Sharla Kostelyk’s board For Kids on Pinterest.

Filed Under: Busy Bags, Crafts and Activities

How to Host a Sensory Bin Swap

By Sharla Kostelyk

Earlier this week, I had a few friends over for a busy bag and sensory bin swap. I wasn’t as organized as I wanted to be but it still took us no time at all to put together our bins and each of us ended up with four different sensory bins. I would call it a success!

How to Host a Sensory Bin SwapDoing a sensory bin exchange is a great way to get new ideas too and share what works well with your kids and learn what is working well for others.

There are several different ways that a sensory bin swap can work but all are great ways to keep the costs down and get some new ideas.

Here are a few ways a sensory bin swap can work:

1. A group of moms can each make one sensory bin and then once a week or once a month, they can rotate their bin over to the next mom. If you have a group of six moms participating, this will mean that your kids will get to play with six different sensory bins and you’ll only have to make one!

2. A group of moms can each make one theme bin but duplicate it as many times as there are people in the group. The moms then get together and give out their bins. Each mom will go home with as many bins as there are people in the group. It’s fun to add a dinner out or at least tea when getting together as a reward for all your work assembling the bins!

3. A group of moms can work together to create all the bins or bin bases. You will make one of each type for everyone in the group so the amount of sensory bins you go home with at the end will depend on how many you all have planned.

Of course, you can also do an informal swap with just one other mom and rotate your bins out that way. There will be less variety in doing it that way.

How to plan for a sensory bin swap:

  1. Find friends who want to join you and decide which type of swap you want to do. Don’t know any moms in your area who make sensory bins? Ask in your online groups or ask other moms you know to help you spread the word that you are looking to organize a swap. You will likely have a lot of interest.
  2. Decide upon the sensory bins that you want to make so that you are sure there won’t be duplicates.
  3. Buy supplies.
  4. Make your sensory bin(s).
  5. Get together to exchange bins.

Supplies needed:

You will need large resealable bags or stackable bins with lids to store the sensory bins in.

 

 

You will also need sensory bin bases. There are so many options for sensory bin bases. I have a list of non-food sensory bin bases that you can read for ideas or you can use one of the common food bases such as rice or dried beans.

Sensory Bins Ideas:

bags for sensory bin swapAt our sensory bin exchange, we each ended up with the makings of four bins.

For the bug sensory bin, we used rice that I had dyed green. I provided peppermint oil to scent the rice but didn’t do it ahead of time because some kids don’t like certain scents and I wanted to let everyone make a choice for their family. For those who wanted the scent, I added a few drops of the peppermint oil to the bag and once shaken, we had peppermint scented rice.

I had gotten a pack of stretchy spiders and a pack of stretchy caterpillars so we divided those up among the bags. I had also found some bug shaped pasta at Bulk Barn and we put that into small bags to add as well. I also had some plastic spiders and we threw some of those in as well. I had some toy insects that I put into my bag.

bug sensory bin in a bag

For the farm sensory bin, we used popcorn seeds as the base and added a smaller bag of dry soup noodles for the hay. I found silicone yellow egg poachers in sets of two at the dollar store that I thought would work really well in a farm bin.  I also found little sticks called matchsticks and knew they would be great for making fences in this farm bin. I included a little pack of farm animals for everyone.

farm sensory bin in a bagThe kids and I made our farm bag into a bin later in the day. I added a few of our toy animals and the bin was ready for play. I also added a funnel and a small container and lid for pouring and scooping. Granola Girl liked scooping the popcorn seeds into the container, putting the lid on and shaking it to hear the sound it made.

farm theme sensory binThis sensory bin wasn’t originally a frog bin, but I had bought a pack of jump frogs and a pack of kitchen sponges from the dollar store and when I commented that the sponges would make good lily pads, a frog bin was born! We included play puffs (I bought two pails of them at the dollar store and we each took half a pail), a kitchen sponge, a frog stencil, plastic jump frogs, stretchy frogs, and toy frogs that I had in the house already. Once my kids have used this bin, I can re-use the play puffs for crafts.

frog sensory bin in a bag

For hundreds of sensory bin ideas, you can also follow my Sensory Bins board on Pinterest. Follow Sharla Kostelyk’s board Sensory Bins on Pinterest.

How a sensory bin swap saves money:

Hosting a sensory bin swap enables you to buy things in larger packages and share the cost. This can be as simple as splitting a set of funnels that you pick up at the dollar store or can be a larger item such as splitting the cost of a huge bag of kidfetti.

I shopped for our sensory bin items at the dollar store and at Bulk Barn. Not including the cost of the bags or bins, each of the sensory bins averaged $2.50. We each paid $10 and ended up with four sensory bins and a few other odds and ends like a homemade sensory ball. Had I made just one of each bin, some of the costs (like buying a pack of stretchy caterpillars just to use a few) would have stayed the same so the cost of my bins would have been much higher.

This post is part of a 5 day series on Simple Sensory Solutions as part of a Hopscotch with iHomeschool Network. Pop over and see the other great topics from an amazing group of writers!

If you are looking for information on making sensory bins, you may be interested in my book. The Ultimate Guide to Sensory Bins

Filed Under: Sensory, Sensory Bins, Simple Sensory Solutions Tagged With: sensory bin

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