Sharla Kostelyk

The Best Christmas Slime Recipes

Looking for unique Christmas slime recipes? We’ve got you covered! Thanks to years of experience (aka as the mom of 7, including 3 slime-obsessed girls!), I know what makes a good slime. These recipes make the cut. Slime makes a great gift. You can either give the homemade slime in a container topped with a bow or festive cookie cutter on ribbon or create a kit with slime ingredients and recipes.

Elmer’s Washable School Glue Elmer’s Washable Translucent Color Glue Elmer’s Liquid Glitter Glue Equate Saline Solution Purex Sta-Flo Liquid Starch Arm & Hammer Baking Soda

Christmas Slime Recipes:

The holiday scented Christmas tree slime provides olfactory sensory input as well as tactile, visual, and proprioception. Plus, it’s just darn good fun to get the “decorate the tree”!

Our Stretchy Christmas Tree Holiday Slime is a great basic slime that’s easy to create variations for. Plus, it’s super stretchy!

I like to add an olfactory (smell) sensory element into our slimes when I can like with this Peppermint Scented Ribbon Slime.

This Jingle Bell Slime was one of our first ever attempts at making slime and it was obviously a big hit because my kids have been slime crazy ever since!

I love the simplicity of this Holiday Slime from Teaching Mama.

I’ve mentioned how I like scented slime, right?! This Glittery Gingerbread one on Natural Beach Living looks awesome!

How fun is this Grinch Slime from I Heart Arts & Crafts?!

For a pretty slime, I like the Snowflake Slime at There’s Just One Mommy.

Check out the Glitter Glue Slime for Christmas at The Best Ideas for Kids.

This Elf Snot over at Down Redbud Drive is a unique twist on slime and a fun gift idea.

The Melted Snowman Slime from Little Bins for Little Hands would make an adorable gift.

My girls would go nuts over this Sugar Plum Fairy Glittery Christmas Slime on No Time for Flashcards. It would make a great gift or party favor.

For a unique gift idea, consider this edible glitter snowman slime or edible chocolate reindeer slime from Kimspired DIY. They both use empty K-cups, so they make a great re-use project too.

More Christmas Slime Recipes:

Candy Cane Fluffy Slime Recipe from Little Bins with Little Hands

How the Grinch Stole Christmas Slime at Schooling a Monkey

Candy Cane Slime Recipe on The Best Ideas for Kids

Santa Suit Slime from Schooling Active Monkeys

Christmas Slime from The Typical Mom

Peppermint Scented Slime Recipe

By Sharla Kostelyk

I’ve been wanting to try to make a scented slime for awhile now. This peppermint scented slime is just the kind I was hoping to make.

Slime is already such an intense sensory experience. It engages the visual, tactile and proprioception sensory systems. Adding scent to it engages the olfactory sense as well.

Be aware that peppermint is an alerting scent, so this is not a good pre-bedtime activity! Alerting scents can be extremely useful though.

If you find that your child is in a state of their “engine running low”, an alerting scent combined with the proprioceptive input of playing with slime can “wake” them up. This can help them maintain attention and be more engaged.

Peppermint Scented Slime:

16 oz. Elmer’s washable school glue
1 cup liquid starch
3-5 drops of peppermint essential oil
lime green acrylic paint
raspberry pink acrylic paint
light pink acrylic paint

Mix together the white glue and drops of peppermint essential oil in a large bowl. Add the liquid starch slowly, a bit at a time and stir as you add. When it starts to pull away from the sides, divide it in equal parts into three smaller bowls.

In one bowl, stir in a few squirts of the green paint. In another bowl, stir in a few quirts of the darker pink paint. In the last bowl, mix in the lighter pink paint. Knead each one separately until it becomes the consistency of slime.

The cool thing is that if you set the colours next to each other in thin strips, it looks like peppermint ribbon candy! Just a little note to add: once you start playing with all three colours together, they will eventually mix. The colours don’t stay magically separated!

When not in use, store the slime(s) in airtight containers or sealed bags at room temperature.

Check out these other scented sensory play activities:

Calming Lavender Scented Bubble Recipe

Peppermint Scented Christmas Playdough

Spider Slime Recipe: Just Like A Spider Web

By Sharla Kostelyk

This spider web slime is great for Hallowe’en parties. You can make a sensory play station and include this as an activity or use it as a party favour. This slime would also work well at a Spiderman birthday party. You know that spider web in a bag stuff that you can buy around Hallowe’en time? Well, I thought I could use that to make a really cool slime. I was very wrong! Do not make the same mistake I did and use the spider web stuff that comes in a bag to try to make a slime. It will be disastrous and messy.

I was able to discover that there is a way to make slime that has a spider web look to it and still work.

Spider Web Slime Recipe:

5 oz. bottle of Elmer’s washable white school glue
½ cup water
1 tsp. borax
1 cup water
1 Tbsp. + 1 tsp. Instant Snow
plastic spiders or black polymer clay to make your own

How to Make Spider Web Slime:

Pour 1/2 cup glue in a bowl.
Add in 1/2 cup of water and stir them together.
In a small bowl, combine 1 cup of water and 1 tsp. of borax.
Slowly pour the borax mixture into the glue mixture, stirring until it has reached slime consistently.
Knead the slime with your hands for a few minutes.
Add 1 Tbsp. Instant Snow to the slime.
Work the Instant Snow in by kneading until it is fully mixed into the slime.
Slowly add up to 1 tsp. more Instant Snow until you reach the texture and look you’re looking for. Continue to knead.
The slime will be stiff at first, but as you continue kneading, it will get better and better. It takes a bit for the Instant Snow to expand.
Add in a few plastic spiders or some polymer ones. (Directions for making your own spiders are below.)

Store the spider web slime in an airtight container.

Instant Snow Powder Plastic Spiders, 3 Sizes Elmer’s Liquid School Glue

For the spiders, only a small amount of polymer clay is needed. Roll 2 small balls of black polymer clay for the spider’s body. Then make a long snakelike piece and cut out the legs. Shape together. Bake on wax paper at 275° for a few minutes.

The polymer spiders will not stick very well, but they are great for imaginative play! They are fun for kids to make and they can use them for other Hallowe’en decorating or play as well.The little beads created with the Instant Snow make playing with this spider web slime a very tactile sensory experience.

Check out some of our other Hallowe’en slime experiences:

Easy Hallowe’en Slime Hallowe’en Sensory Slime Game

The Mega List of Adoption Shower Ideas

By Sharla Kostelyk

Our first adoptions were done through the foster-to-adopt program, so we weren’t able to celebrate when our children first came to us. When our oldest daughter’s adoption finalized more than 4 years after she came to live with us, a group of my friends threw me a surprise shower at a restaurant with gifts and the most lovely cards.

Then when we got her birth sister as a baby, friends threw her and I a pink themed adoption shower. It was such a special time for me to be able to publicly acknowledge this huge event in our family!

Over the years, I had held baby showers for numerous friends and relatives. All babies deserve to be celebrated, but I had missed being able to have this event for my babies. It was all the more special to be able to commemorate my new baby’s induction into our family at her adoption shower.

Years later when we brought home two children from Ethiopia, we waited until they had adjusted before we held a welcome party for them at our home.

These events are important commemorations and being able to share them with friends and family make them all the more meaningful.

Adoption Shower themes and ideas:

Happy Home Fairy shares a shower for a Russian adoption including martyroshkas (Russian Nesting Dolls) as decor and many personal touches.

The Sweetest Occasion shares ideas for an older child adoption shower or celebration.

These Three Remain has ideas for decorations and food for a Chinese adoption shower.

The Pleated Poppy has cute ideas for a globe themed adoption shower that could be used for any international adoption.

This surprise Chinese adoption shower featured on Party Wagon has beautiful decorations and all sorts of special details.

Globes and paper airplanes are the theme of this shower which would be perfect for any international adoption.

Even a simple idea like these Africa shaped cookies adds a special touch to an adoption shower.

I love the fingerprint tree in this adoption shower for an older child, indicating everyone’s support and love.

Hostess with the Mostess shares a Precious Cargo Vintage Travel shower that is just adorable!

Sweet Designs has a travel inspired party with just the most delicious little details.

This Ethiopian adoption shower has the most amazing cake and some very clever and meaningful ideas.

Joel and Kitty share about their amazing adoption baby shower before their daughter arrived.

Invitations:

Tiny Prints offers several styles of Adoption Shower invitations.

They also offer adoption announcements.

Adoption Shower gift ideas:

Books are my favourite gift for new babies, birthdays, graduations and holidays. Books make a perfect for an adoption shower.

You could choose one of the many great children’s books available about adoption or choose a book for the new parents such as The Connected Child: Bringing Hope and Healing to your Adoptive Family (especially good for a toddler or older child adoption) or Loved by Choice (my favourite treasury of heartwarming adoption stories).

Personalized gifts such as this Chosen Heart Adoption Frame, an adoption Christmas ornament, a quilt or blanket, or a special wall hanging or work of art.

I love this “Missing Piece” adoption ornament.

Cafepress and Etsy are both great places to find personalized gifts such as jewelry, handmade items, artwork and clothing.

Another thing that is nice to consider is a donation to the orphanage the child came from or to a clean water project in the community they were born if it is an international adoption.

The family may request donations be made to an adoption grant organization. There are also ways to give a gift and contribute to an adoption fundraiser as there are many families selling items to fundraise for their adoptions.

Adoption Gift Ideas:

Missing Piece Adoption Christmas Ornament Always an Angel Adoption Chosen Child Ornament Forever Family Porcelain Ornament Our First Christmas as a Family Ornament Adoption Swarovski Ornament Love You to the Moon Celebrate Adoption Ornament Adoption Christmas Ornament Adoption Triad Heart Symbol Many Hearts One Family Born In Our Hearts (Adoption) Keepsake Ornament Self-Care for Foster and Adoptive Families The Connected Child: Bring Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family Loved By Choice: True Stories That Celebrate Adoption Happy Adoption Day!Tell Me Again About the Night I Was Born We Belong Together: A Book About Adoption and Families Willow Tree hand-painted sculpted figure, Our Gift Willow Tree hand-painted sculpted figure, Child of my Heart Adoption Gotcha Gift Pillow for New Baby Adoption Gift – Personalized Wooden Block Child Keepsake Gift Custom Engraved Every Family Has a Story, Welcome to Ours Vintage Keychain Adoption Gift Born In My Heart Adoption Bracelet For Adoptive Mom Foster Mom Adoption necklace Adoption Triad Symbol Pendant Necklace for Adoptive Mom Adoption Frame, Personalized

Additional ideas:

It is always a nice tribute to the child if you can incorporate their country or culture in some way in the celebration whether that be in the food you choose to serve, the music you play, the decorations or colour scheme, or the gifts.

There are situations where it is also appropriate to honour the child’s first family in some way at the shower as well. It is best to ask the adoptive parents if they would like the invite members of their child’s first family to attend.

Write advice or well wishes on puzzle pieces for a You’re the Missing Piece themed adoption shower.

Have a Casserole Shower where you collect freezer meals to set the family up with suppers for the coming months. This is especially appreciated by families that have more than one child.

However you decide to celebrate the new addition to the family, congratulations!

Colour Mixing Sensory Science

By Sharla Kostelyk

Learning about colours doesn’t have to be boring. Our colour mixing sensory science made for a very fun few days! We were inspired by our Rainbow theme last week and decided to extent our learning about colors into this week. There is a song that we sang (to the tune of “If You’re Happy and You Know It”):

“When you hug blue and yellow, it makes green; when you hug blue and yellow, it makes green; when you hug these two you’ll see a new color magically; when you hug blue and yellow, it makes green.”

Of course, for the next two versus, you make orange by “hugging” red and yellow and make purple by “hugging” red and blue.

We did a few easy color mixing experiments.

Colour Mixing Sensory Bags:

Supplies needed:

resealable plastic sandwich bags
red paint
blue paint
yellow paint

Instructions:

Squirt some blue paint and red paint into one bag, ensuring that the paints are on opposite sides of the bag. Do the same in other bags with blue paint and yellow paint in one and red paint and yellow paint in another.

Seal the bags, removing as much of the excess air as you can.

Discuss primary and secondary colors.

Have the child hypothesize what colours will be created when the paint is mixed.

Have the child mix the paints together with their fingers by moving the paint around through the bag. This is a great sensory activity too. The kids are able to create other colours by squishing the primary colours into each other.

You can hang the bags on the window using clear packing tape and have the child observe how the sun shining through affects the appearance of the colours.

This experiment is one of many included in the first volume of our Sensory Science Book. It is full of engaging hands-on learning designed to help kids retain what they learn because of using their senses in the process.

Colour Mixing Mini Volcanos:

Supplies needed:

baking soda
cake pan
vinegar
food colouring
droppers

Instructions:

Place a layer of baking soda in a cake pan. Fill three cups a third of the way with vinegar and add about five drops of food colouring to each cup.

Fill the droppers with the coloured vinegar and squeeze it out onto the baking soda. By adding another colour on top, you can create little volcanos of new colour in mixing them.

They loved this activity!The kids learned:

-that the best way to form a new colour was to have a person with one dropper of one colour and another person with another colour squeeze at the same time in the same area. Once left on the baking soda, the colours did not mix as easily.

-that mini volcanos are fun.

-that when you pour the three glasses of color into each other, you end up with almost black.

Mommy learned that when you do this activity, you should put newsprint down to protect your counters!!! (note that in the early picture, there was none underneath!)

The kids especially liked the look of the bottom of the cake plate after we were done and wished we could hang it like artwork. Unfortunately, a picture of it will have to do!

Some of the books that we read that were related to colour:

The kids also completed a great colour mixing worksheet (find it here) and had fun with some Mandala coloring pages that I printed for free from here.

They also had plenty of opportunity for hands-on learning on colour mixing with paint.

Check out these other great sensory science activities:

Jello Science Experiments

Sensory Smell Bottles

What is Reactive Attachment Disorder?

By Sharla Kostelyk

One of the questions I hear a lot is “What is Reactive Attachment Disorder?”

I remember sitting in one of my first adoption and foster care classes and having the instructor take out a packet of Post-It notes. She gave one to each of us and asked us to stick it to one surface and then another and then another. She encouraged us to stick it on surfaces such as a blanket or clothing where it would pick up lots of gunk or on the floor where it would pick up pieces of dirt as well as sticking it to smooth surfaces such as a table.

Then she pointed out that as we moved our Post-It note from one place to another, it became less sticky, particularly after it was placed somewhere that it picked up a lot of stuff that stayed with it.

She used the analogy of that Post-It note to explain how children have a harder time attaching the more placements they have been in or the more trauma they have experienced.

Just like how the sticky part on the Post-It note didn’t adhere as well with more moves or more gunk, the child would also have a harder time attaching after multiple moves and having picked up some “yuck” along the way.

While it’s not a perfect analogy for RAD, it’s one of the best ones I’ve ever come across.

What is Reactive Attachment Disorder?

Attachment issues fall across a spectrum. Reactive Attachment Disorder is the most extreme in that spectrum. Children with RAD feel unsafe attaching to a primary caregiver or parent.

These children were unable to form a healthy attachment due to neglect, early childhood trauma, insecure or disorganized attachment style in the parent, multiple placement such as foster care or multiple caregivers such as in an orphanage, or abuse.

Reactive Attachment Disorders and other attachment disorders take place when a child has been unable to form a consistent connection with a parent or primary caregiver.

If a young child feels that their basic survival needs are not met, they perceive that they cannot depend on others.

The child feels threatened by attachment and that people who are supposed to love you are not to be trusted.

If you suspect that your child or a child you know may have Reactive Attachment Disorder, you can read how to recognize the signs of it here. Of course, that is just a stepping off point. You will need to consult with a professional in order to get an official diagnosis.

Risk Factors for Developing RAD:

neglect
loss of a parent at a young age
early and lengthy hospitalization due to prematurity or health concerns
severe postpartum depression in their mother
living in an orphanage or institutional care
bouncing around from one home/foster home to another
physical, emotional, or sexual abuse
early childhood trauma

Regardless of what the cause of Reactive Attachment Disorder is, it requires treatment and the development of trust within a nurturing relationship in order to heal.

You may also want to read:

Is there Hope for Reactive Attachment Disorder?

Books for Reactive Attachment Disorder